Per the wiring diagram in the DTC listing I linked to above:
Pink wire should have battery voltage.
Gray wire should be +5V.
Black wire should be good ground.
The other two wires should show continuity to their respective pin at the PCM.

 

i checked all the wires i noticed that my battery voltage wire is low also my ground has a slight voltage .02V and at 200k ohms it read 5.4

thanks again for the help, wiring and electrical work is not my strong suit