when I step on the brake it stops blinking. the lights and fuses work fine. changed the relay behind the glove and the new relay blinked even crazier. any ideas

 

You should pull off your tail lights and check out the condition of the bulbs and sockets. Sounds like you are getting voltage leaking between the turn signal and brake light circuits. I'm betting you'll find some corrosion in the sockets out back.

 

Ill check it out, thanks Ill update what I find

 

Buy new bulbs, and some dielectric grease first. Once you get them out, clean up the sockets, put in some dielectric grease and the new bulbs.

Bet that fixes your problem.