Originally Posted by chris015

Well I went into the kitchen and sweet talked the girl. She made a fair deal about it. I go with the friends and just remember that i owe her one. So i was thinking about it knowing she was disappointed. So heres what i did. I told her all smoochie ooochie that il go with her until that sunday then meet up with the guys that shes more important. She got all excited etc and seemed to be really happy. Now its time to spill the beans with the guys. Im sure they will be ok with it though,they know that its a win for win since i get to have fun that weekend, and keep the woman happy which gives me "happy time".

Id usually think "good friends are rare,forget the girl and go with them" but we have been together since highschool and im 22. So its not just "another girl".


So its a win for win for me. So far.....

Also she knows nothing about this forum,and the way my office sits she cant see the screen unless she walks around me,which i will have no problems closing this down before she gets there lol.

Originally Posted by chris015

how the heck did you know? Lmao

Originally Posted by Rottidog

Look at his profile, it read: replying to....

I'm not a freaking stalker sheesh... more beer to wash THAT out of my mind!
Cheers!

Originally Posted by Rottidog

Awsome man! You got to consider both friends & gf & hopefully all are happy. I'm sure the guys will be cool with it seeing as you're going in 2 directions & made acceptions in both.
It was the "you won't see them for awhile because some are in a band - you'll see her everyday!" that helped you make it work out, wasn't it? lol
WTG! You took care of it in a way that all will be cool with, especially her.

Originally Posted by chris015

lol it was.

So since we are on the opinions,woman stuff etc etc...


Our 3 year anniversary is coming up sept 5th. I know for a fact its a big deal to her since she mentioned it a few times in the last couple of weeks. So i need to figure out what to get into etc..

Here is what she likes :
Art
she's a computer geek
She like fishing,and paintball. Yea i know right? score..

She hates :
flowers
pink
beef (sadly so i know right? cant win em all!)
Girly stuff (she does get all dressed up etc when a special occasion comes up.)

Originally Posted by chris015

I may have a plan already,which i may have to edit sometime later. She has always asked about going striper fishing at night. I wonder if i could put something together and go out on a boat just me and her with some wine etc and go striper fishing and be all romantic with the stars etc etc...but then again fishing is really going to test my a.d.h.d lol I fish my life away most of the time anyways...


ideas!


edit : and to buy her something, shes been eying one of them ipads for a while.