what wire do i use from the console harness and which one do i connect it to in my truck to make the lighs turn off when the doors shut?

 

Are you trying to wire in a replacement console or try to wire in one when your truck did not come with it from the factory?

It sounds as though you are trying to wire in a console that doesn't belong in your truck. If your truck didn't already come with a console from the factory then the wires that you are looking for don't exist in your truck.