Looking for some advice.

I am wanting a backup/weekend SUV. I sold my jeep because it was not big enough. I drive 100 miles a month but I want something that will last a few years with min upkeep.

Here is what I am thinking.

2nd Gen (95-05)-- These have the nice look and I can pick them up for 3K in the area. I have looked online at some for sell and looking at car lots as I drive by. Going with the older ones I am sure I will have to be careful with the rust(I am in Northern Indiana)

4 door--This is a must as I need enough room for the family to ride

4WD-- This is a must, I would like to do a small lift on it in a few years. Something like 2-3" total lift just for a aggressive look with all terrain tires.

V6-- I owned a 94 S-10 years ago and I love that 4.3. Pretty good MPG (got 22-23MPG) with enough power to pull a small camper.

Trim package-- Key less entry it a very big plus and everything else I can take or leave.

Transmission-- I would like the 5 speed just because I miss driving a manual but I know those will be hard to find.

What should I look for?
Where does the rust start?
Any known problems to look for? (transmission trouble or motor fails)


Thanks