Originally Posted by AJBert

To enjoy a round of gold, you can't take the game seriously at all. Drink a few beers, rag on whomever you are playing with (and expect the same every time you swing) and make bets so that the loser buys the next round. When I first started I tried my best, and just ended up getting mad every time I played. It dawned on me after a while that having a good time was more important than having a good score. A birdie now and then makes the whole day worth while on the golf side; a designated driver makes the whole day a success!